Navigating Your Personal Style: An Expression of Self-Love

Navigating Your Personal Style: An Expression of Self-Love

Navigating Your Personal Style: An Expression of Self-Love


Do you ever find yourself standing in front of your closet, overwhelmed by the amount of clothing choices but still feeling like you have nothing to wear? Trust me, you're not alone. Many of us have been there, stuck in a cycle of fashion trends and impulse buys that don't truly resonate with who we are. Finding and navigating your personal style can be a game-changer, and it's about more than just what you wear—it's about embracing a form of self-expression and self-love that's uniquely you.

Your personal style is an extension of yourself, a reflection of your inner world and the values you hold near and dear to your heart. It's how you choose to present yourself to the world. Your wardrobe is your canvas, and the clothes you wear are the colors with which you paint your story. So, let's embark on this journey of self-discovery, shedding the excess and embracing what truly makes you feel good.

"Fashion you can buy, but style you possess. The key to style is learning who you are, which takes years. There's no how-to road map to style. It's about self expression and, above all, attitude."

Iris Apfel

1. Authenticity Over Trends

The fashion industry has a way of making us feel like we need to keep up with ever-changing trends, causing us to overconsume but real personal style goes beyond that. It's about embracing what resonates with you, regardless of whether it's "in" or "out" this season. Authenticity trumps trends every time. Your style is an ever-evolving journey, and what feels right for you today might not be the same a year from now, and that's perfectly okay.

"Don't be into trends. Don't make fashion own you, but you decide what you are, what you want to express by the way you dress and the way to live."

Gianni Versace

2. Investment in Quality Pieces

When it comes to your personal style, quality should always outweigh quantity. Invest in pieces that you truly love and that make you feel confident, even if it means spending a bit more because over time it will be worth while. These are the timeless pieces, the items that withstand the test of time, and they will remain cherished parts of your wardrobe for years to come. Quality pieces don't just make you look good; they make you feel good too.


3. Explore and Experiment

Don't be afraid to experiment and explore. Your personal style journey is a process of self-discovery, and it's perfectly fine to try out different looks and aesthetics. Mix and match, play with colors, patterns, and textures until you find what resonates with you. This is the fun part! You may discover a side of yourself you never knew existed. Personal style is an expression of who you are and a way to express your creativeness.

"Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak."

—Rachel Zoe

4. Declutter and Streamline

To truly embrace your personal style, it's essential to declutter your wardrobe. Get rid of the pieces that no longer serve you, or those that never did. A minimalist, well-organized closet makes getting dressed easier and more enjoyable. It's like having a curated collection of pieces that you genuinely love and resonate with.

5. Mindful Shopping

Practice mindful shopping by asking yourself whether a new item aligns with your personal style and whether you truly love it. Avoid impulse buys, and instead, consider how it fits into your overall wardrobe,  what pieces you can pair it back to in your wardrobe and your long-term style goals. This will not only save you money but also help you build a more cohesive and satisfying wardrobe that resonates with you.

6. The Joy of Getting Dressed

When you've found and embraced your personal style, getting dressed becomes a joyful experience. You'll look forward to picking out your outfit each day because you know that what you choose is an extension of yourself and an expression of self-love. Your clothes become your armor, your source of confidence, and your creative outlet.

Your personal style is not about following the latest fashion trends or trying to fit into a mold. It's about finding what makes you feel good and confident, and expressing yourself authentically. It's a journey of self-love, self-expression, and creativity. So, put aside the trends, invest in quality pieces you love, and watch as getting dressed becomes easier and more fun, day after day. Embrace your unique style and let it shine; you are a work of art, and your wardrobe is your canvas.

And don't forget to be unapologetically you and uniquely you, that is what is going to allow you to show up as the best version of yourself. 

 With love,

Wander & Rove 

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Love this 😘

Susan Munnelly

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